Life should not be a drama and people should not be martyrs and miuda did a good job in reminding me of that and complemented my thoughts about the concept of love:
"Entender o outro, é Amar!
É difícil... mas quando conseguido não pode, ou não deve, causar-nos dor!!!"
"To understand the other one, is to love!
That's a difficult task... but when achieved it can't or it shouldn't cause pain!!!"